Casey Not Guilty – No Justice Today

Well, justice wasn’t served after all. The jury had reasonable doubt, despite the mounds of circumstantial evidence and motive the prosecution brought out.

Casey lied about having a job and a nanny for two years. As soon as Caylee became old enough to talk, Casey looked up "how to make chloroform" and "neck-breaking" on her computer. When Casey decided to kill Caylee, Casey gave Caylee chloroform, put three pieces of duct tape on her nose and mouth, wrapped her in the Winnie-the-Pooh blanket, put her in a trash bag, and then put her in the trunk of her car. Then, Casey went to Blockbuster with Tony, her boyfriend. When the car began to smell, Casey backed it into her garage, put Caylee into a laundry bag, borrowed a shovel from her neighbor, laid Caylee on the ground where she contemplated burying her, decided against it, and threw her into the swamp. Casey then changed her MySpace password to Timer55, knowing that was how long she could keep up the lies to her mother as to Caylee's whereabouts -- in 55 days, Caylee would have turned 3. Casey then partied and lived with her boyfriend, all the while lying to everyone on earth about where she and Caylee were. Casey, as Linda Drane Burdick said, was the only person who had a better life with Caylee gone. Casey had access to everything associated with Caylee's death: the duct tape, the blanket, the laundry bag, the clothes and the car. 

Did the jury make the correct decision? I think not. Well, maybe some justice will occur and Casey will get her tubes tied.

Casey Anthony Trial Ends

Wow. Having a blog that includes parenting tips never prepared me to learn what likely happened to little Caylee Anthony at the hands of her mother, Casey. Today, on what should have been a celebration of our nation’s independence, the Casey Anthony case wrapped up, and the jury is deciding Casey’s fate. 

Many people who did not follow the trial, as I did, believe that Casey might have accidentally killed Caylee, but those who did follow the trial know that what Casey did was premeditated murder. 

Linda Drane Burdick concluded closing arguments in what she hoped would be a last minute field goal. It was. Burdick asked the jury to decide who benefited from little Caylee’s death. Burdick showed that it wasn’t Cindy, Caylee’s grandmother, by playing a panic-stricken 911 call that Cindy made imploring police to find her granddaughter. It wasn’t George, Caylee’s grandfather, who tried to kill himself to be with Caylee. No. The only person who benefitted by Caylee’s death, Burdick demonstrated via photographs: One was of Casey partying and dancing days after her daughter being “missing,” and the other was of the tattoo Casey received days after killing Caylee – la bella vita, the beautiful life.

In case you are wondering whether this was a premeditated murder, think about this. Casey searched on her computer about how to make chloroform three months prior to the killing. After she killed Caylee, her MySpace password was Timer55, which meant that Casey only had 55 days to tell her mother lies about Caylee’s whereabouts until her mother would insist on seeing Caylee. In 55 days after the murder, Caylee would have turned 3 years old, and Cindy would have expected to see her for the birthday. Casey was caught on day 31 and never had a chance to get into her long-term lie.

If justice is served, the jury will come back with a guilty verdict of murder in the first degree.

Not the Hand Dryers Again

I recently returned from a trip to D.C. with my husband and youngest child. D.C. is a great place to take a school-age child for a sightseeing trip. It’s educational, exciting, and if you go during the cherry blossoms as we did, beautiful. The only drawback was that no matter where we went in our nation’s capital, the restrooms were only equipped with electric hand dryers. There was not a paper towel to be had. I suppose this was in an effort to be more green, which I am almost always for. But I draw the line when, well, it’s just plain gross. In case you didn’t realize it, electric hand dryers blow bacteria all over your hands. If you want more information, please check out my article on Electric Hand Dryer vs. Paper Towels.

Help for Autism

I grew up in Anaheim, California, so I have had my share of time spent at Disneyland. Naturally, I wanted the same experience for my own children, so my best high school friend and I would take our children to Disneyland whenever we got the chance. I’ll never forget the time, though, when my friend’s little boy wandered off while we were trying to get all the kids their meals. My heart stopped for a moment, and time seemed to stand still as panic set in. Hundreds of people were around us, and it seemed as if we would never find my friend’s son. Fortunately, after five of the longest minutes of our lives, we found him. 

Today, I read in “USA Today” that kids with autism tend to wander off, and even worse, these children sometimes either don’t realize that they are lost or don’t know how to ask for help. My heart goes out to parents who must live and deal with their child wandering off. It’s important for neighbors and friends to understand the gravity of this situation, and it’s important for parents to find the best solution for their particular circumstance.

Maybe my article on Autism Home Programs for Parents can help you determine whether you have an autistic child and the steps you can take to help your child.

Winning with Tiger Blood

Listening to Charlie Sheen’s ravings is kind of funny…at first. Who wouldn’t laugh at some alpha male proclaiming that he has “tiger blood, man” or one who says, “I have one speed; I have one gear. Go?” Poor Charlie may think he’s winning, but the whole world knows he isn’t.

Charlie Sheen admits to using more drugs than anybody could take and survive. Sheen says the run he was on made “Sinatra, Flynn, Jagger and Richards look like droopy-eyed armless children.” Sheen may think that he can blink and cure his brain, but has he really come clean?

Drug addiction is a complex problem that is difficult to treat and is subject to relapse. Many parents deal with drug abuse regarding their teenage children, and many moms become addicted to painkillers or other drugs to cope with life. I hope the articles I’ve written on these subjects can help you out if you or your child is struggling with this battle: Teen Drug Abuse and I Need Help With My Prescription Drug Addiction.

The Scale

My husband brought home a new scale last week. A digital one that you cannot “adjust” to make the numbers better. That scale was sitting in the bathroom just staring at me for a week until I finally got the nerve to get on it. 

Don’t hate me for this, but the number was actually lower than I thought it would be. I owe this to a book I recently read, “Younger Next Year for Women,” that changed my life. 

I’ve always been active, but this book kicked it up a notch, advising women to not only exercise, but to make it part of your life, devoting as much energy to exercising as we do to anything else if we want to keep in shape as we age. 

I wrote a short article for “Modern Mom, called Fitness Programs for Women. I hope the article inspires you to make exercise a part of your life, and if you have time, pick up the book, and get healthy.